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The Power of Mindset

I find it most interesting that God has given humans the ability to choose. Even when it seems that all ability to choose has been removed, it remains that I can choose my response. We can choose what to think, how to act, and which attitudes we will nurture. The God-given ability to choose must be given away; it cannot be taken. It must be relinquished of our own free will.  

The English Oxford Dictionary defines mindset as “the established set of attitudes held by someone.” To me, the sum of a person’s mindset comes from a person’s beliefs, and those beliefs determine our thoughts. Your thoughts are like the settings on a thermostat because they act as unequivocal set points—the temperature at which the switch is activated. If temperature is below the set point, the heater is on and the temperature rises. When the rising temperature passes the set point, the thermostat switches the heater off and the temperature falls passively.

The Christian is asked to be a thermostat, not a thermometer. We are to set the temperature, not report the temperature. Even when others are unreliable, untrustworthy or unfaithful, we are called to be reliable, credible, trustworthy, steadfast, and in a word, faithful. Why? Because God is faithful to His promise, even when we are not.

Eventually, the temperature falls below the set point and the cycle repeats. What is your setting? Is your mind set to please God or yourself? Who is Lord and Master? The Bible teaches us to take care what we are thinking, since it might, in fact, be a self-fulfilling prophecy. Our direction in life springs from our hearts, so we need to govern our hearts and minds continually. This principle is most clearly stated in Proverbs 4:23:

“Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life” (ESV).

“Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life” (NLT).

What you feel and think in your heart is who you truly are. The heart is like a mirror. You are not what you see when you look at yourself from the outside; what you truly are is seen from the inside. You are not who others think you are, but rather who you think you are. Reset your heart as you would a thermostat.

Your mindset is the beginning point for this new life.

To read more on the power of mindset order a copy of my book 70 Seconds: Stop Wandering; Start Living and Leading!  For free shipping until the end of January, visit http://www.CoachDanHolland.com/

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“Regardless of your current circumstances, 70 Seconds will inspire you by revealing sound principles and practical actions you can take to improve your leadership abilities as a Christ follower.  Dan’s book is readable, insightful and provocative for all aspiring leaders who are dissatisfied with the status quo and determined to improve their leadership skills and the lives of believers around them.”  – Bob Russell, Former Senior Minister, Southeast Christian Church

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Your Life in One Day

What if your life was just one day long? 

What if your entire life was lived in the context of one 24-hour day? 

What would that look like? What would it feel like? How might your perspective about your life change? How might your outlook about the lives of others be different?

The average life span is 80 years. 

If you’re a 35-year-old man or woman, it’s difficult to envision yourself as an 80-year-old.  But visit with an 80-year-old man or woman and listen their stories about when they married the love of their life or when their children were born or when they served their country and you’ll likely hear them make statements like, “It seems like just yesterday.”  Memories have a way of bringing yesterday up close.  Time is like that; the far-off future seems like it will never happen, and the distant past seems like yesterday.  

Assuming you live the average length of 80 years what would that look like if it were all lived in one day? Your life would begin at 7:00 am and end at 11:00 pm. That’s your entire life crammed into one 16-hour day!

Mathematically speaking every 12 minutes of the day would equal one year of life. You would get to celebrate a birthday every 12 minutes. That’s a lot of cake…and gifts! Each minute represents one month of your life and every two hours represents a decade of your life. Here’s how it works out.

  • 7:00am – 9:00am (Birth to 10 years old)

  • 9:00am – 11:00am (10 to 20 years old)

  • 11:00am – 1:00pm (20s)

  • 1:00pm – 3:00pm (30s)

  • 3:00pm – 5:00pm (40s)

  • 5:00pm – 7:00pm (50s)

  • 7:00pm – 9:00pm (60s)

  • 9:00pm – 11:00pm (70s)

  • 11:00pm – 1:00am (80s)

  • 1:00am – 3:00am (90s)

What time is it for you?

Referencing the above chart, for me the time is 6:20pm. That means I have 4 hours 40 minutes left in my day before I turn 80. Maybe I’ll have less time but maybe I’ll have more. Either way, I am choosing to live all out using the gifts God has given me for the good of others and to HIS GLORY for the next 4 hours and 40 minutes! I believe that at the end of the day, when everything is taken into account, what’s going to matter most, both to myself and others, is whether or not I feared God and did what he told me.

How about you? What time is it for you? How are you using your time?

You get to choose how to invest your time.

Imagine the impact if you lived on purpose for the next “minute” of your life? You get to decide. If there are commitments you’ve put off, people you’ve neglected or projects that no longer deserve your attention then do something about it. Stop putting it off. Don’t waste the next “minute” of your precious life wandering.

In the time you have left why not do what you’ve always said you wanted to do. Maybe you’re right where you need to be doing what you’re supposed to be doing. In that case, keep going and don’t look back. But maybe it’s time to do something new and different. You don’t need a bucket full of courage to get where you want to go, only a drop or two is enough to take your next step.

Don’t be that person who wants things to be different AND nothing to change. To get something new requires doing something new. Why not go where you’ve always wanted to go. Do what you believe to be the next right thing. Spend it with people who bring you joy. It’s time to move forward.

To read Part 2 of Your Life in One Day, click here: https://danholland2819.wordpress.com/2018/11/26/your-life-in-one-day-part-2/ 

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Impossible-Hard-Inevitable Stuff

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Speak of the impossible and someone might say: “It’s not impossible – it just hasn’t been done yet.”

As true as that might be, you sometimes face situations that you feel are impossible.

Or perhaps inevitable might be a better word to describe some situations. You feel like something is inevitable and hard at the same time and you would like nothing more than to avoid that situation. Maybe you know what I’m talking about.

When you are in a hard-inevitable situation, have you ever asked God for something impossible, such as stopping the inevitable? Me too! In fact, whenever Jesus came face to face with the hard, yet inevitable suffering and death by crucifixion, he did as well. In fact, the way he talked to God in that moment has often guided the difficult prayers that I have prayed. More precisely, the prayers were not difficult, but the circumstances in which I found myself were indeed difficult.

The model I personally use in such times is Jesus’ prayer(s) in Gethsemane. To say that he was facing a difficult situation would be the understatement of all time. “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death” were his exact words. You’ve heard his words but have you noticed the clarity?

First read his prayer…then pray your prayer following his example.

“Abba, Father,” he said, “everything is possible for you. Take this cup from me. Yet not what I will, but what you will.” Mark 14:36

First, pray intimately. After all you are speaking to your heavenly Father.

Second, pray expecting that God can and will answer…acknowledge his power: “Everything is possible for you.”

Third, pray specifically. Don’t be chicken. Don’t concern yourself with how it sounds. You’re talking to your Father and you are desperate! Pray! Ask! Seek! Knock!

Finally, pray better than you are. All I mean by that is this: when life is said and done you will be glad that you lived in God’s will. You will never regret asking that God’s will be done before your own. So in every bold prayer say this: “Yet (even though I have asked for some things I would like/prefer) not what I will, but what you will be done.” Accept his will above your own.

I learned from a wise woman…and sometimes it is this simple: “You have not because you ask not.”

 
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Posted by on February 12, 2014 in Uncategorized

 

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If This Desk Could Talk

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Senator’s Drafting Table, circa. 1911

My drafting table tends to generate a lot of discussion. Maybe you own something that generates conversation too. I wonder what tales this desk would tell if it could talk.

I usually get two questions right out of the gate. Do you stand to work? And, how old is the desk?

Do I stand to work? Often, yes. Why? Preference, I guess.

Where did I find the drafting table? Believe it or not, Beth found this drafting table at a garage sale from Rebecca Salley in Oviedo, Florida on February, 2004. For years I had wanted a standup desk but building one was cost prohibitive. Beyond its sturdy craftsmanship which includes tongue-in-groove corners on the three drawers that can be locked or unlocked with the original skeleton key, what is most fascinating is the history of the desk.

It was owned by George W. Bland of West Virginia. He was a senator from 1911-1914 for the 12th district of West Virginia. That earned him the nickname “Senator,” which is how his friends referred to him the rest of his life. Rebecca Salley, the lady from whom we bought the desk, is related to the “Senator.” 

Her father is Mr. Bland’s grandson wrote for me on the history of the drafting table. This is what he had to say about the it.

“Grandpa Bland was an Abstract Lawyer for Standard Oil Co. of New Jersey owned by John D. Rockefeller. He worked 32 years for the same company. He would go to the courthouse in any county where the company was trying to lease oil rights and check the title to be clear to be leased by this particular person. If all was OK he would draw up a map or blue print of the area for the company on this drafting table. It was always in the attic as long as I can recall.”

“Grandpa Bland was born December 31, 1866 at home in Blandville, WV, the family farm. He died June 14, 1941 when I was three years old and I do remember him and the funeral, which was in his home. His casket was in the office, first room to the left coming in the front door. He took me to Oscar`s for my first haircut. He died at Mayo Clinic in Rochester, Minnesota. He had a kidney removed due to cancer and was doing fine for several days but died suddenly from a blood clot.”

“John Davis who ran for president in 1924 from Clarksburg, was a friend of Grandpa’s. I remember in the middle room in the attic, back to the window on the drafting table was a letter from William Jennings Bryant who also ran for president three times. In the letter he was thanking grandpa and ma for the hospitality while he was campaigning in the area and letting him stay there at Eastover, the name of the house where Grandpa lived and I grew up. I have no pictures of Bryant.”

See what I mean? If this desk could talk…

Note: The brown Stetson cowboy hat hanging to the left of the standup desk was given to me by my brother-in-law, Theo Jones. He purchased it on Whiskey Row in Prescott, AZ from a store that was going out of business. The hat is made from beaver felt and was made in the 1950’s. It’s the real deal!

 
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Posted by on February 5, 2014 in Inspirational Stories

 

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Want to Make a Difference?

Want to Make a Difference?

Live All Out

You don’t have to be beautiful or attractive or even talented to make a lasting difference in someone’s life or to live with incredible purpose.  You just need a little drive, determination, single-mindedness, focus and resolve.  What’s more is that, while it may be nice, you don’t have to be liked or accepted by others to have a positive impact; but you do have to like yourself.  Where you’re headed in life matters infinitely more than where you came from.  In other words, how you live is more important than where you were born.  Where you were born was yesterday.  How you live is today; You only have today.  Enjoy life…today.

Be the Best You

He grew up before him like a tender shoot, and like a root out of dry ground. He had no beauty or majesty to attract us to him, nothing in his appearance that we should desire him. He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering. Like one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not.” Is 53:2-3

Jesus wasn’t physically attractive but he was popular and he did have purpose.  What was true for Jesus is true for every human being.  Life flows from your heart and mind.  Pay more attention to your heart and mind than everything external.  I am not saying that you should make an effort to be ugly, or mean-spirited, or brash, or sickly, or out of shape.  It’s just that the most talented athlete with an ungrateful spirit is simply talented and no more.  The most beautiful person with an ugly attitude is simply unattractive…after all, physical beauty is skin deep. 

Sometimes we are seduced into believing that being liked by someone, accepted by others, beautiful by comparison, or talented in a certain skill is what matters most of all.  But those are all things that change and frankly over which we have very little control.  As a result of this delusion, you may find yourself spending your emotion, money and time trying to impress people you don’t like (probably should love them…even though you may not like them).

Enjoy Life…Today

Today, maybe the best advice is the advice that Jesus would give.  Maybe you should determine that you will live all out.  Love God with every fiber of your being; also, love your neighbor as you love yourself.  Love God; Love your neighbor.  That’s all.  Forget the past; press on in the life God has given you.  Run!  Run!  Run!

And as you run with purpose, notice how beautiful and loved you feel.  You were created to run, to live fully, today.  Find a way to engage and enjoy life today. 

I’d love to hear from you.  Comment below.  inspire others!  How are you choosing to live all out?    

To gain perspective read Your Life in One Day blogs (start here): https://danholland2819.wordpress.com/2018/11/18/your-life-in-one-day/

To be encouraged read Christmas Towns blogs (start here): https://danholland2819.wordpress.com/2018/12/02/christmas-towns-part-1/ 

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“Regardless of your current circumstances, 70 Seconds will inspire you by revealing sound principles and practical actions you can take to improve your leadership abilities as a Christ follower.  Dan’s book is readable, insightful and provocative for all aspiring leaders who are dissatisfied with the status quo and determined to improve their leadership skills and the lives of believers around them.”  – Bob Russell, Former Senior Minister, Southeast Christian Church

 

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